Pat
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Post by Pat on Sept 15, 2003 19:24:48 GMT -5
Wow. You couldn't be more wrong. Oh yeah i forgot that i was never a teenager (and still am) and I never and teenage friends. I also forgot about male hormones(sp?). Ill give you that not all of them are like that but most males are.
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Post by TranceRolin on Sept 15, 2003 20:44:27 GMT -5
Okay . . . I may sound a bit self-righteous here, but I'm not one of those guys like this friend of mine that will only ask/talk about how hot a girl is if a female is mentioned in the conversation. If anything, I'm FAR from that . . . Anyone that tells you that they don't bother with looks is a lousy liar, I'll tell you that much. It's in the instincts . . . The first thing that attracts people to each other are their looks. (unless it's one of those internet relationships or somethin', I dunno.) For this, I'm called gay in the homosexual sense SO MUCH, that if I was a pathetically weak willed person such as those that mock me, then I probably would go that way.
I've yet to meet more than one or two males that were sincerely anywhere near my position on the matter, just to back up Pat's claim. ()
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Oin
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Post by Oin on Oct 7, 2003 14:01:06 GMT -5
i say that teen love can be real love,take me for example i went out with someone when i was 13 cuz we were in love and we are still together.
But i do agree alot of teen love would be lust becuz of theirhormones or maybe half the time its just to show off but i do think its possible for teens to experience like somebody said a few pages back,anyone can have it but not all are old enough to understand it,or summit like that
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BlackMage
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Post by BlackMage on Oct 7, 2003 19:38:12 GMT -5
And yet another dead topic is revived...
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Flik
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Post by Flik on Oct 14, 2003 18:21:54 GMT -5
Oin, how old are you?
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Post by master_jaffer on Oct 16, 2003 13:04:59 GMT -5
It really depends on your conception of "love." There is no literal definition, since a "strong" attraction is different for everyone. Besides, there are many types of love, for example, brotherly love, family love, ferternal love, martual love, "puppy" love, lust love, emotional love, ect... Love isn't always a heterosexual or homosexual attraction to your sexuality. Love can be the same as like, most people love their mothers (not me), but 99.999999% of those people aren't going to screw their mothers. Teens can experience love, but the way you expressed it makes the question too open. I think the love that is an attraction to your sexual preferance, "puppy" love, lust love, emotional love, martual love(if you are married, not using any further since most teens aren't married.) "Puppy" love I think is experienced by everone. That cute "girl/boy next door" is something I'd consider "puppy" love, and I think all of us have experience that in any amount. Lust love... well, this really is a major form of love that people at my school experience. Freak dancing if a form of expressing lust love, even though the girls at my school have no clue. Just making out then "throwing" someone away is also lust love. Just wanting a physical relationship is lust love. Emotional love is what I think your really referring to. I don't think a lot of teens experience that. I'm going through emotional love right now, and its when the physical part of the relationship isn't recrational, but procreational. It's where you actually "love" someone, and almost no one now knows what their really feeling, and usually if they like a girl/boy, they are either too quiet or complete jackasses, only around 7 percent of teens lie in perfect balance with their significant other, and 7 percent isn't a high number. The actual emotional bond is hard to form, even with adults. It can take months to years of dating or being friends to know them enough for emotional love to some into play. Teens experiencing that true emotional love is rare, but it happens and teens can do it. You just kept your topic too broad. Narrow it down next time.
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Post by The One True Kefka on Oct 17, 2003 0:33:02 GMT -5
Just wanting a physical relationship is lust love. Exactly. If you cannot delve past physical appearances, then you have no business in a true relationship. Anyone who says "hey that girl is hot" but says nothing, and seemingly doesn't care, about her personality or the way she thinks, etc. isn't in love, he's just horny - and thanks to the media's distortion of the importance of physical appearances (seems the media's always the culprit ), lust is so much more prevalent these days that the world is going to be filled with unwanted kids in about 30 years.
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Post by SUPERFF7FAN on Oct 21, 2003 6:11:37 GMT -5
ahh love.... anyone who says that humans cannot feel love needs to be in a pysche ward, or get a brain transplant... anyhow, its easy for a teen to lust, and even easier, for a teen to beleive they are in love, but its hard and rare for a teen to fall honestly and completely in love.
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Zheil
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Post by Zheil on Oct 23, 2003 16:09:16 GMT -5
If you cannot delve past physical appearances, then you have no business in a true relationship. Anyone who says "hey that girl is hot" but says nothing, and seemingly doesn't care, about her personality or the way she thinks, etc. isn't in love, he's just horny Plain out d**n true. I never act like that though... I actually go for their personality, and how they really are... excuse me for sounding really idiotic with this... But uh... I'm thinking we should let this topic die... well, maybe, it's actually a good topic, and since it's been revived, we-- Wait. No. Screw it.
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Post by The~Inquisitor on Oct 24, 2003 11:42:25 GMT -5
Of course, anyone who claims they only go for personality is a filthy liar or has very little self esteem. A relationship is supposedly includes a physical attraction.
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Post by Matthieus on Oct 24, 2003 23:04:14 GMT -5
Okay, just to make this clear, this is Zheil for right now, I'm just at my friend Matt's house. Inq: Do you want to be saying that kind of talk in front of this kitten? Now... Now, do you want to be talking about people like that now, in front of the little kitten? You should be ashamed... But true, physical attraction is also part of it. I mean, who doesn't think like that?
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Post by The~Inquisitor on Oct 25, 2003 3:58:43 GMT -5
Zheil: I talk in front of whoever I like... Do you find that cat cute now that (s)he has been speared and had an eye poked out? I have nothing to be ashamed of.
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Post by Magi on Oct 25, 2003 12:32:30 GMT -5
That is soooo horrible...
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Post by Chickensoupcheese on Oct 25, 2003 14:07:10 GMT -5
As Inq so.....ingeniously put, people who say that personality is everything are probably just kidding themselves. As politically correct as we'd like to think we are, if a mentally sick disabled person who had loads in common with you asked you out, I doubt that you'd accept. Personality is important in maintaining a relationship, but all-powerful? At the moment, I like to believe that I'm looking most for personality in seeking a relationship, but I still can't deny that I'm a lusty little bugger .
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Zheil
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Post by Zheil on Oct 25, 2003 18:36:40 GMT -5
Zheil: I talk in front of whoever I like... Do you find that cat cute now that (s)he has been speared and had an eye poked out? I have nothing to be ashamed of. M...M-My Fluffy...
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